Sunday, September 30, 2012

Ways Women Are Silently Shattering the Glass Ceiling?

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Women are closing the wage gap between their male counterparts and some women are thriving.

I will list the reasons how women are making these strides.

I wrote an article asking the question should men care about women equal pay? The article emphasized the importance of women equal pay and the affects on their family lives.

However, women are not concerned about society leveling the playing field; they are taking charge of their own destiny.

The need for a more satisfying life is one reason for the shift in breadwinners.

Women are using education to gain equal pay and more.

Glass ceiling defined:

The glass ceiling symbolizes the discrepancy in pay between men and women.

Educational Imbalances:

USA Today wrote an article outlining the shift between college applicants. The article states that since the 1980?s females applicants have outpaced males applicants.

The economy has not affected the women's ambition.

The economy is another reason for the role changes.

I found this news very encouraging.

I advocate females educating themselves to change their lives and potentially their family's life.

The most encouraging part of the article was the women are young, childless, and single.

Some women are choosing higher education before other life events.

Some women choose to get married and have children first which is admirable.

A woman can choose her route in life.

The top ten degrees according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics (2011)

Surgeons (225,390/yr)Anesthesiologists (220,100/yr)Oral Surgeons (214,120/yr)Obstetricians and Gynecologists (210,340/yr)Orthodontists (200,290/yr)Internists (189,480/yr)Other Physicians and Surgeons (180,870/yr)Family and General Practitioners (173,860/yr)Chief Executives (173,350/yr)Psychiatrists (167,610/yr)

What industries are women choosing?

The top jobs women outpace men in salary are:

Sales engineersStatisticiansLegislatorsOther transportation workersAutomotive service technicians and mechanicsSpeech-language pathologistsLibrary assistants, clericalMotion picture projectionistsHelpers, construction tradesFuneral service workers

This is a partial list. These women are not only making strides in education, they are also performing well in jobs once traditionally male.

The women are focusing on the inner cities.

The top metro areas women are choosing.

Metro areas

Atlanta (21%)Memphis/AR/MO (19%)New York City-Northeastern New Jersey (17%)Sacramento, CA (16%)San Diego, CA (15%)Miami-Hialeah, FL ( 14%)Charlotte-Gastonia-Rock Hill NC/SC ( 14%)Raleigh-Durham, NC (14%)Los Angeles-Long Beach, CA (12%)Phoenix, AZ (12%)

How do you feel about the progress women are making?

What other ways can a woman improve herself?

Do you know a woman making these strides?

I write on workplace ethics, gender issues, and workplace harassment. If you want to read more please visit workplace ethics.



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Thursday, September 27, 2012

Fresh ideas for a girls' getaway

Have you ever reached that point where you are sick and tired of work and chores and you want to invest in some "me" time? Or do you feel disconnected from your girlfriends because you all are wrapped up in your careers and families? It is so important for girlfriends to come together every once in a while and spend quality time with one another. In order to make this really special time, here are some amazing ideas that all of you are sure to love.

Treat Yourselves to a nice dinner

When you have children, going out for dinner can consist of family restaurants or diners. Why not treat yourselves and do a ladies' night at a really nice restaurant? Save up your money and book ahead of time so that everyone can afford a meal without feeling guilty afterwards. Order whatever you like and do not forget about dessert. The great thing about a ladies' night out is that it is about pleasure and fun, not responsibility.

Book a mini cruise

There are now companies that offer weekend cruises as opposed to week-long ones. This is a great option if you are busy with either your family or career. While back a week away might set you substantially, a simple weekend getaway is less expensive and you can easily go back to your life afterwards. It is indulgent without being excessive.

Do a hot stone therapy and massage session

Going to the spa is a time time-honored tradition amongst women. Pamper yourself with a relaxing hot stone or massage therapy session. These are really great for taking away stress and allowing for relaxation.

Book a hotel room

Going to a hotel room is basically a grown-up version of a sleepover. Instead of having it at one your friend's houses, book a hotel room for complete and utter privacy. This will allow all of you to talk, eat, watch movies and catch up without having children or your husbands walk into the room.

Go camping

This might not seem like to obvious choice for a girls' getaway but it is actually a lot of fun and oddly empowering. Setting up a tent, starting a fire and cooking meals over a grill can remind all of you of the powerful and self-sustaining women that you really are.

When it comes time to get the ladies together, make sure to do it right. Do something indulgent and fun and make sure to treat yourselves. A good girls' getaway should remind you that your relationship with each other is just as important as your careers and your families.

As you can see there are many awesome things you to relax can do and chill out with your girlfriends. Hope you enjoyed these ideas! If you're ever looking for a place that offer hot stone therapy and a wide range of massage services in Boca Raton, Florida - I would highly recommend balanced skin & body therapy in a heartbeat. http://www.balancedskintherapy.com/



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Wednesday, September 26, 2012

How to Find Venues For Your Wedding

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Your Decorative Budget

Many people choose inexpensive venues in order to cut cost. However, you may want to consider how much money it might take to spruce up the event space. For instance an event hall might cost you only $1k, however the walls are drab and the floor might be hideous. While an other event hall might cost you $2500 however the room's own decorative elements enhance the space. If the room is semi formal you might end up spending less on decorations.

Extras

Some venues offer you a low price but you are just getting the event space only. However when you compare the extras included in their rental fee, you are spending more. For instance, in your search you might find that one venue offers $4000 for the venue space, however, the there is a rental fee for chairs and tables. Sometimes people need to consider that hotels often have set ups especially designed for weddings. These set up includes table and chair decorations.

Parking

Though some spaces boast about size and parking, you might want to take a special look into the logistics. If your event is on a weekend and the venue has several events going on at the same time, you might need to inquire about parking capacities. Also you need to know how accessible the parking lot might be for handicap persons. Its good to know if the parking lot is secured or will security be an additional expense.

Food and Beverage

Many venues have a list of preferred vendors. Make sure you contact these vendors to for pricing information. Then compare these totals with others. Instead of plated meals, it might be cost effective to do buffet style dinners. Find out

if they are offering any deals or specials. Also if you are seeking caterers, check out their foods as well. Inquire about venues they suggest and see if they could cut you a deal for selecting one of the venues they are in contract with.

This is a very clever tactic!

Audio Visual

You or your event planner need to physically go to the venue to check out the audio visual equipment. Some venues require a certified technician to work the equipment. Once the venue is selected a trial run with the technician is a necessary must. Don't assume that if the venue states they have audio visual accommodations, that it is included in the package pricing. Inquire about the equipment and make sure that your request can be accommodated by the venue.

Some venues charge hundreds of dollars for using their a/v equipment. You might come out considerably cheaper by bring your own equipment or renting from an outside source.



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Sunday, September 23, 2012

Shoun and His Mother

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Shoun's father had passed away while he was still a student of Soto Zen, leaving him to care for his elderly mother, which he continued to do after he became a teacher.

Shoun always took his mother with him when he went to the meditation hall. When he visited monasteries, he could not live with the monks, since his mother accompanied him, so he built a small house and looked after her there. To make a living he copied Buddhist verses and sutras, and in this way earned enough for food.

People would laugh at Shoun whenever he bought fish for his mother, as monks are not supposed to eat fish. Shoun was not bothered by this, however, his mother was hurt to see people mocking her son. Eventually, she told Shoun: "I have decided to become a nun and to be vegetarian as well." She did just that, and Shoun and his mother studied together.

Shoun was a music lover and was a master harp player. His mother played too, so on nights lit by the full-moon they played together.

One evening, a young damsel was passing by Shoun's house and heard their music. Profoundly affected by the harp music, she invited Shoun to her house to play the next evening. Shoun accepted the invitation. He met the young woman a few days later on the street and gave thanks for her hospitality. People laughed at Shoun, as he had paid a visit to the house of a lady of the streets.

The day came when Shoun left to give a lecture at a distant temple. When he returned a few months later, he found out his mother had died. Nobody had known where he was to contact him, so the funeral had begun without him.

Shoun walked up to the coffin and knocked with his staff, saying: "Mother, your son has returned."

He then answered on behalf of his mother, "I am happy to see you returned, my son."

Shoun replied, "Yes, I am glad too, mother." He then announced to the people around him: "This funeral ceremony has finished. You can bury the body."

When Shoun himself got old, he knew his passing was drawing near. He asked his students to gather round him the next morning, and told them he would pass away at noon. Offering incense to a picture of his mother and his Zen teacher, Shoun wrote this poem:

For fifty-six years I lived as best I could,

Making my way in this world.

Now the rain has ended, the clouds are clearing,

The blue sky has a full moon.

The students assembled around him, chanting a sutra, and their teacher passed away during the recital.

Morgan Park juggles a busy career and family life and keeps on an even keel by practicing meditation every morning and evening. She shares her tips for meditation techniques at What Is Zen. There you can enjoy classic and more modern Zen stories from Japan, in a Collection of Zen Stories.



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Thursday, September 20, 2012

Flat Iron Techniques That Produce Salon Quality Results

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Typically when we think of a flat iron we think of only hair straightening. However, with the right technique a flat iron can also be used to flip and curl your hair. The key is to have a flat iron with plates that are as close to 1" inch as possible and if your hair is short then even smaller.

To begin you need to ensure that your flat iron is best suited for your hair type. If your hair is hard to straighten then a titanium product like the BabylissPro Nano Titanium might be the right choice. Alternatively, if your hair is finer and not as difficult to straighten then a tourmaline product may be the way to go. This however does not mean that you have to go out and buy a new flat iron if you already have one; instead try adjusting the heat with higher settings for thick hair and vice versa.

Next you need to apply a thermal heat styling product. This serves as a protective barrier between the hot plates and your hair. Without it you run the risk of damaging your hair, which can lead to drying and breakage. There are numerous products available so find one that you really like. If you are still looking then you might try the Miracle Leave-In product by 'It's a 10'. This is a great choice as it is a flat iron spray, thermal protector and stops breakage while adding shine.

Lastly before we get started a few important tips. You should never flat iron your hair when it is dirty. The best results come from freshly washed hair that is dry. Although, it does not make much difference whether you blow dry your hair or let it dry naturally. Yet, blow drying does have the risk of damaging your hair as well.

1. Hair Straightening

The first thing you need to do is brush or comb through your hair and then place it into sections. The easiest and fastest way is to grab the hair at the top of the head twist it around and place in a clip. Secondly, section across the upper part of your ears and again twist it around and place in a clip. This will leave all the hair from your ears down to the back of the neck out and ready for straightening. You should always start from the bottom working your way up so that you finish off with the top part of the head last.

Now comb through the section that is left out again. This is important because if there are tangles the hair will not be able to smoothly pass through the plates causing snagging and pulling. If your hair is very curly or frizzy you will need to comb each section prior to running the flat iron across it. Next grab a portion of the hair approximately 1" inch across and place the flat iron as close to the root as possible making sure that you do not burn your scalp. Generally, about a ? inch away from the scalp is best and try not to take too much hair through the flat iron at one time. Salon results come from smaller amounts of hair where each strand is able to glide evenly between the plates.

Now that you have a section of hair between the plates start pulling the flat iron through. You should not be squeezing the plates together really hard. The goal is to allow the hair to freely glide between the plates. If this is not happening you may have too much hair that you are trying to pull through at once - try dividing your section in half.

The next and most important part is the speed at which you are pulling the flat iron through your hair. If you are pulling too quickly you will not get the results that you want and if you are pulling too slowly you run the risk of damaging your hair. A good rule of thumb when you are first learning is to count out loud "one thousand one, one thousand two, one thousand three" and move the flat iron according to this speed. If your hair is extremely curly and harder to straighten then slow this speed down just a little. When you get to the end of the hair hold it just slightly longer. This will ensure that you get perfectly clean edges.

2. Flipping

Hair flipping, or sometimes referred to as flicking, is a great way to get some movement on the ends of the hair. Whether you flip the hair inward or outward does not change the technique only the rotation of the wrist.

To begin you follow all of the same steps as outlined in the straightening section. You want to ensure that you start at the root so that the rest of the hair is smooth and silky with the flip being only on the ends. Remember to pull through smaller sections and count out loud to maintain an adequate speed. When you get closer to the ends turn your wrist either inward or outward forcing the hair now to glide through the plates at an angle. Remember movement of the hair happens according to where the heated plates are; so the more you turn your wrist the stronger the flip.

The secret to a perfect flip is to slow the speed down slightly, while continuing to turn the wrist. The most important thing is to have continuous movement almost like you are walking through the hair, but don't let go of the tension between the plates at this will leave marks in the hair (they almost look like lines and you don't want that). The movement is steady with an even tension at a slow speed.

3. Curling

Curling the hair with a flat iron is probably the most difficult technique to master. However, once you get the hang of it you will see that it really isn't that hard. Again you will begin with the same steps as outlined in the straightening section. Then you need to decide where you would like to place the curls. Do you want tight curls starting from the top of the head or loose wavy curls that start about half way down. It is a good idea to begin at the root of the hair as this will ensure an overall polished look rather than just starting where you want the curl.

Section the hair as indicated previously taking approximately 1" inch and placing it in between the plates. Now when you want to begin the curl turn the flat iron either inward or outward, depending on the direction of the curl that you want, and start rolling it with the hair loosely around it. Remember you want the flat iron to be constantly moving so you are rolling it in the palm of your hand, while the hair is evenly going through the plates. The tighter you hold the hair and roll the flat iron the tighter the curls. Do not pull on the hair or hold it between the plates for a long period of time. If your hair is harder to curl you will need to hold it slightly longer, but not more than two seconds.

In closing, remember to always use a thermal protector on your hair. This is imperative to ensure that no damage is done during this process. Also, try to match the flat iron to your specific hair type or work with the heat setting to get optimal results. These techniques take a little bit of time to master, but once you get it you will have beautiful salon quality styles that last.

Kaye Shaw is a full time writer who specializes in health and beauty. As a former make-up artist and esthetician she is very passionate about this industry and loves to provide valuable information to readers. You can check out her latest website at Top Flat Irons, where she provides beauty tips, reviews and buying advice for a range of top brands, including Babyliss and much more.



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