Friday, November 30, 2012

Evening And Formal Wear Recommendations For Black-Tie Events

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It's hard to dress yourself up during a formal event and secure that "wow" factor when you walk into the room. Unlike celebrities who have personal stylists and access to the latest and most expensive evening wear, you have to make do with what your resources allow you to have. Nevertheless, it is not impossible to exude a certain level of elegance during a ball or formal function, even with a tight budget. All you have to do is choose the right kind of dress for you and find a boutique that has an extensive collection of evening and formal wear.

What you want to do is secure a few long gown choices as black-tie events usually call for their use. It's up to you whether or not you'd like to keep things simple with an all-black or grey selection or add a little bit of color into the mix. If you are feeling slightly more adventurous, prints are widely popular this year along with tailored silhouettes. But try not to lean towards shocking as it may force you to stand out in an awkward way. Steer clear of clothes that are too revealing since that would be inappropriate for the said event. If you'd like to secure some sex appeal with what you are donning, you can do so with asymmetrical shoulder straps, a tube top or a little peek-a-boo cut out in less sensitive parts of your body, like your back. You could also show a little of cleavage. But try not to be so overt because it may be misconstrued for tacky or trashy.

When shopping for an evening or formal wear, think more of classic beauty. But don't go so far as getting voluminous outfits with lots of pouf or those with long trains because that will only make you uncomfortable during the party. If you'd like something Victorian inspired, go for floor-length Empire cut dresses with a sleeve sewn shawl or a diamond brooch for effect.

Now, some of you may feel more comfortable wearing cocktail dresses to a black-tie event as they permit better movement. But you have to be careful about what you choose to put on. Remember that they are not standard garments for such occasions. So, at the very least, they should be well accessorized. If you are attending something fancy, you might want to keep them below the knee to maintain a certain level of classiness. And always see to it that aesthetics of your dress matches the theme established.

Don't even mistake the notion of evening and formal wear with work clothes. Not only will you embarrass yourself but also your date. And try not to wear a pant suit during the event, even if it is designer clothing. The last thing you want to do is put a damper to your femininity with a masculine ensemble.

If you still are having a hard time narrowing down you options through these tips, you could consult dress shops for the latest trends and styling recommendations. Or you could flip through magazines for samples and then show them to shop receptionists.

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Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Work-Life Balance in a Woman's World

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Woman.
An enigma. A mystique. Epitome of beauty.
Stressed... Overworked... Burdened...

Think again. It may come as a rude shock but it's more than a gender issue. Women are strong enough to overcome the toughest of challenges. Yet, when it comes to their own lot, they tend to be unsure.

This fact was revealed in a survey by The McKinsey & Co where they said that a lower percentage of women are in the workforce in Asia than their western counterparts.
Women accounted for only six per cent of seats on corporate boards whereas Europe boasted of 17 per cent and the US at a comfortable 15 per cent.

So what could be the reason given that, in general, Asian women are perceived to be talented and hardworking? One of the main reasons could be the expectation from a woman to be a home-maker. The society and families look upon a woman primarily as a home-maker and not a corporate belle. In fact, a career-oriented woman could be facing harsh criticism at home and the work area for 'sacrificing home for a job'.

The influence of changing perceptions of women on their independence can be illustrated by the Facebook COO, Sheryl Sandberg's jaw-dropping statement, ""I walk out of this office every day at 5:30 so I'm home for dinner with my kids at 6, and interestingly, I've been doing that since I had kids". Yes. She said that in a video posted on makers.com. Far from chewing her words, she went on to say proudly, "I did that when I was at Google, I did that here, and I would say it's not until the last year, two years that I'm brave enough to talk about it publicly." Attagirl!

Pete Cashmore, the founder and CEO of Mashable, supported Sandberg's stand when he opined that "the measure of our work is in our productivity, not the number of hours we put in". How sweet, you're thinking; so am I.

And now for reality bytes. Working after a kid means financial problems, family pressure, overworked and underpaid, no support from colleagues and a nagging self-doubt that you are lagging behind. If you've upticked most of these then you are definitely Asian. Unlike the Western women for whom nothing changes personally or professionally. Of course, this is just a perception. There are Asian women who are happy working in offices or schools and there are Western women who long to be home to cuddle their babies. But we're just talking in general here.

In such a scenario, what Sandberg has done is to flash a big beam of Wow factor for all working and non-working women. We can leave early and rush back home in time for spending quality time with our family. And why not? The case in favour is leaving early for home is just a tad awkward - it's not incompetent. But the reality is that even if you manage to pull off flexible hours, chances are you'll be underpaid, overlooked for promotions, constantly judged by colleagues and labeled casual worker.

There are so many people who vouch for the work-life balance. We all know it is so important. Take, for instance, Chetan Bhagat (Indian author), who said in a talk to students, "Don't just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. It's OK - bunk a few classes, take leave from work... we are people, not programmed devices."

The debate should actually be whether working longer hours in the office means more commitment or inability to manage time. It's not a badge of honour to boast about how little time you spend with your family. And this is very important for all women at some point of time in their lives since they are easily stereotyped as showpieces. There will come a time for all women when work and home pulls in different directions. This applies to the handful of men as well who are sincere. The rest, men and women, may please excuse.

"A woman's work is never done". So goes a proverb. It's heart rending to watch a woman trying to be a Supermom. Give her a break guys. Cooking, cleaning, nanny or day care centre, parent-teacher meetings at school, family get-togethers, family problems, personal issues... the list never really ends. You get the picture.

If you want to balance work and life then you have to brush up your skills, both at home and work. I am taking the liberty of using a part of quotes of Mr. Angel Gurr?a, Secretary-General of the OECD, to my advantage. He said that "Skills have become the global currency of the 21st century." So true. I take it in a more personal sense of the words.

I came across a page on OECD which said that the OECD's analysts warn: "The demographic transition - to fewer babies and longer lives - took a century in Europe and North America. In Asia, this transition will often occur in a single generation."

Let's not start a revolution. Let's just start a new beginning. Everyone is fighting their own private battles. I am more partial to women but I feel women have to fight double hard. So let's just think about the person trapped in the stereotype in our workplace and at home. Let's all start speaking up or at least think about it. We'll find a way.



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Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Helping Women in Developing Countries

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I have applied to volunteer in a developing country, sharing my work of empowerment for women. I realized the first thing I need to do is get my head out of how things work in North America and learn what life is really like in developing countries. My current workshop was going to fall on deaf ears. Most women don't work outside the home, or in the same way women in North America go off to work every day. I needed to understand what the current culture was and adapt my teachings to that. My research open a window of huge discovery for me, one that I was truly not expecting. I discovered that women are still struggling to earn basic rights; rights that we have long taken for granted. I knew this in general terms, but never really looked at the consequences of this lack of equality. This was much bigger than I anticipated. Until now, my focus has been financially empowering women and wage equality, but I realized I had to understand and address total gender equality. So first I had to define total gender equality:

Gender equality means a society in which women and men enjoy the same:

? Access to education

? Rights and obligations in all areas of life

? Distribution of power and influence

? Reproductive health and rights

? Financial independence through work or entrepreneurship

? Opportunity to develop personal ambitions

? Autonomy to manage their own lives

One does not supersede or replace another. Each of these areas must be improved together. Think about when one takes on the desire for personal growth. It is not just in one area that will bring them success - success will come from growing:

? Mentally

? Physically

? Emotionally

? Spiritually

? Financially

In order to achieve total balance, all equalities must work together and become part of society in equal measure.

This article will be the first in a series, highlighting each equality issue on their own. All of them are part of the bigger picture of total equality. But we have to start with the first step. The following is, in my belief, the most crucial. This is where it needs to start. Sadly, I had no idea that the lack of the most basic rights of all was killing hundreds of thousands of women and children. I cannot believe how naive I was, thinking that the issue was simply birth control. I hope this article will in a minuscule way, rectify my lack of understanding and knowledge by bringing awareness to others.

1. Reproductive Health and Rights

Access to essential health supplies could save the lives of millions of women and children every year. Some 215 million women currently have an unmet need for family planning in developing countries. If this need were met, it would result in 53 million less unintended pregnancies and approximately 100,000 less maternal deaths every year. In March of 2012, a high-level commission was launched by UNICEF and UNFPA. They state, "The day of birth is the most dangerous day in the life of a woman and her child. The fact that women do not get the care they need during childbirth is the most brutal expression of discrimination against women. To prevent these tragic and unnecessary deaths is not only a humanitarian urgency of highest priority, but a key investment for social and economic development." (For more information on the Commission, visit http://www.everywomaneverychild.org/resources/un-commission-on-life-saving-commodities )

In another article, a UN report reveals 500,000 women in developing countries die each year as a result of pregnancy. Women in the world's least developed countries are 300 times more likely to die during childbirth or because of their pregnancy than those in the UK and other similarly developed countries.

The death toll is more than half a million women a year, according to Unicef, the UN children's emergency fund. Some 70,000 who die are girls and young women aged 15 to 19. Although it is the subject of one of the millennium development goals, the death toll is not going down. In the developing world, a woman has a 1-in-76 risk of dying because of pregnancy or childbirth in her lifetime. In developed countries, that risk is only one in 8,000. Deaths of newborns have also received too little attention, the report says. A child born in one of the least developed countries is nearly 14 times more likely to die within the first 28 days of life than one in an industrialised country such as the UK.

The reasons are multiple, according to Unicef`s annual state of the world`s children report on maternal and newborn health. "The root cause may lie in women's disadvantaged position in many countries and cultures and in the lack of attention to, and accountability for, women's rights," it says. "Saving the lives of mothers and their newborns requires more than just medical intervention," said Ann Veneman, Unicef's executive director. "Educating girls is pivotal to improving maternal and neonatal health and also benefits families and societies."

Something we take for granted - the choice to plan our families - does not exist in some of these developing countries. The women are not only denied the medical attention they deserve, but the education to know they deserve it.

Equality for reproductive health and rights is the foundation for future generations. This isn't just about birth control, or women choosing whether to have children or how many; this is about saving lives.

Empowerment begins with knowledge. It moves forward with action. I feel blessed that I can share my expertise and take a small part in the movement of gender equality. And my first step is to gain the knowledge so I can move forward and share.

Please join me and share this.

In the workforce and in society, women have a valuable contribution to make.
Learning to stand up, speak up and ask for what they want, will help them achieve equality in all areas of their life. Learn the skills of negotiation - as a woman - and become empowered.



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Sunday, November 25, 2012

Are You Dreaming of an Island Wedding?

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Introduction

What immediately comes to mind when you think of a having your wedding somewhere in paradise? Are you one of the future brides who is turned away by the thought of having a traditional ceremony with 250+ guests, a half- empty church, requests to take thousands of the same photos and last, but not least, an overly crowded reception hall where you need to say hello to relatives you never knew existed? All for the price of $25,000+? Well, if this is you, say no more. I've heard this all before from couples, especially recently engaged women, and I am excited to announce that you can make your dreams a reality easier than you may realize. What should come to mind when thinking of jetting off to the white sands to say your "I do's" is affordability and intimacy. There is nothing more affordable than traveling to your wedding destination while being minutes away from your honeymoon villa. And there is nothing more intimate than hosting your ceremony on a private beach with your best friends and closest family watching you and your mate commit to each other forever.

Magen's Bay, St Thomas, USVI

According to National Geographic in 2011, Magen's Bay located on the north end of the Caribbean Island, St Thomas, US Virgin Islands was rated one of the top ten beaches in the world. Magen's Bay is a pristine natural reserve with a public beach that offers potential wedding destination lovers lush tropical scenery and white sands to say their vows. And at no extra charge, the beach offers gorgeous sunrises and sunsets along with stunning views of the crystal turquoise waters. What makes this beach one of the perfect destinations for a beach wedding is the lack of current and waves because of the topography of the bay. A wise choice for any couple as Magen's Bay is fast becoming one of the most requested beaches for wedding ceremonies.

St Thomas is an affordable solution for a beach wedding and can serve as one of the best investments of your life. There are many resources out there to help assist you in making your plans including consultants, dedicated coordinators and travel planners. A coordinator can assist from everything from marriage license application, courthouse fees, certified minister, and any other questions you have about marrying on the island. In the end, the investment for an island wedding can be way less than that boring same ole traditional wedding that society has been accustomed to. Why not have an island wedding? It can be the most intimate moment of your life.



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Thursday, November 22, 2012

5 Tips for Healthy Hair

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Who doesn't want a lovely set of locks as seen on TV? After spending ridiculous amounts of money on shampoo and conditioner combo sets promising silky smooth tresses, I've decided that there must be more I can do to revive my straightened and colored hair. Try the following tips for healthy hair worthy of a hair care commercial.

Eat Healthy
It's always good to consume a well-balanced diet, but what foods help ensure healthy hair? Choose foods that are high in protein, zinc, biotin, and omega-3 fatty acids. Proteins assist in repairing brittle hair, promote growth, and maintain color. Individuals lacking in zinc intake may experience shedding. Biotin deficiencies can result in brittle hair. Omega-3 fatty acids help to condition hair and support a healthy scalp.
- Have some kidney beans with dinner. Kidney beans contain protein, zinc, and biotin.
- Snack on some walnuts. Walnuts include omega-3 fatty acids and zinc.
- Go for the poultry! Eat chicken and turkey that are high in quality proteins and iron.
- Start your day off with some whole grains. Opt for some whole wheat bread or whole grain cereals for breakfast. Whole grains contain zinc, iron, and B vitamins.

Brush right
- Steer clear of plastic bristles and wood combs. Instead, opt for natural boar bristles for dry hair and a rubber tooth wide paneled brush for damp hair.
- Brush prior to shampooing. Use gentle strokes on dry hair to remove product buildup and scalp flakes. This also will stimulate your scalp and blood flow to follicles.
- Remember that wet hair easily snaps and stretches! Try to be gentle when brushing your wet or damp hair. Take a strand of your hair and pull until it snaps. Now look at the texture. Ick.

Protect Your Ends
- Mist your ends before home coloring. The ends tend to be more porous and consequently absorb more pigment. If misted, the chemicals cannot fully saturate/damage the strand.
- Trim damaged ends regularly. This will improve the overall texture and appearance.
- Use color protective products. When you color your hair chemicals penetrate the outer layer. Color protective products help to rehydrate and repair what damage has been done.

Deep Conditioning Treatments
- Deep condition at least once every two weeks. Deep conditioners penetrate the hair shaft and strengthen strands.
- Use your blow dryer to help intensify the conditioning treatment. The heat will open the cuticle and allow for the ingredients to fully penetrate strands.

Use an Ion Hair Dryer
- Ion dryers use negative ions that break up water molecules more efficiently than regular dryers. As a result, drying time is cut in half. Ion dryers also cancel positive ions that are damaging to hair.
- Remember to use the nozzle piece. Hair dryers can heat up, however, the nozzle protects from heat and helps to avoid frizz.

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