Thursday, August 30, 2012

A History of the Jade Gemstone

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The study of gemstones, especially those that have enjoyed long, uninterrupted popularity, can be as much a look into the history of human culture as a study of hard science. Of all the historical gemstones, this is truly the case with jade. It wasn't until the 19th century that mineralogists discovered that what was known as jade was actually two different and separate materials, now known as nephrite and jadeite, each having similar properties. Apparently, this scientific fact was of little concern to the cultures that had developed such a deep appreciation for jade over thousands of years. Despite the differences between the two, both are considered to be true jade.

Not many gemstones can boast a 7000 year history. Amazingly, the history of jade unfolded around the globe as cultures that had no contact with each other discovered the beneficial, ornamental, and sometimes violent uses of jade. The toughness of jade allows it to be ground extremely thin and still hold up to hard use. The earliest jade items were tools, such as hammers and axes formed from jade cobbles, but it was also used for weapons. The Maori of New Zealand favoured local nephrite to fashion a short club called a mere that they used for close quarters fighting. As it became more practical to use metal for tools and weapons, jade came into its own as an ornamental material. With a history as the royal gemstone of China since roughly 3000BC, jade is closely associated with Asian jewellery and art objects. Over thousands of years Chinese artists developed carving it into an art form and pushed the limits of what was possible. The toughness and durability of jade, which is considered to be greater than any other gemstone, might seem to be a hindrance to detailed carving. However, both types of the stone proved to be perfect for lapidary work. Other cultures also discovered the amazing properties of jade. In pre-Columbian Mesoamerica it was highly valued for ceremonial objects. Olmec warrior masks are fine examples of the precision workmanship and capabilities of the stone. Researchers were puzzled about the source of Mesoamerican jade until it was rediscovered in the late 20th century in present day Guatemala.

The properties of jade that were so admired throughout history are no less applicable today. As a gemstone it can be used for handmade jewellery in more ways than just about any stone.



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Monday, August 27, 2012

Women, Weight and Hoarding

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In working with my female clients, there is one commonality that I have found whatever the degree of hoarding or clutter that cannot go uncommented upon. Women's closets are always filled with clothing of various sizes from very small to very large despite their current size. This is a curiosity to me and one which I instantly realized must be tread upon quite carefully.

I first noticed this phenomena when working with one client who's primary hoard is books. Though the rest of the apartment is seriously cluttered it was her closet, so chock full of clothing, that caught my attention. When I asked what percentage of clothing she actually wore she replied "about 5%". I couldn't help but compute and respond, "so 95% of your closet is filled with things you will not be wearing in the foreseeable future". She was forced to agree. We have not approached the closet yet in our work together.

Another client decided that she wanted to start with her closets which are filled with clothing ranging from size 8 to 14. It was quite an emotional experience for her and she is not able to tolerate more than 40 minutes of work before leaving the room to take solace elsewhere in the apartment. I always give her a little alone time after she leaves; I finish putting things in their proper places while she consoles herself. But I do try and talk to her about this reaction. "It's all about weight you know", she tells me. Well, maybe for the clothes, but not for the rest of the clutter. But I also can't ignore her substantial consternation about her weight. She is an attractive woman who does not fit our ideal for body shape for women of today.

Though I am not a woman with weight issues (in fact, I'm an underweight man) I do know that I have hit on something here of which I have no understanding. I'm very aware that we live in a society that values slender women, verging on anorexia. In fact, given what I've heard about weight loss groups where perfectly on target women claim to be "fat" I'm cognizant that we devalue women who don't fit these unreasonable ideals. I've read about anorexic teenagers and the ravages of that disease.

I'm curious about my female readers experience with weight and clothes and what you can tell men about this that we don't know. Any answers to my many questions?

David K. Stern is the principal of Leave It to Me. LITM is a Personal Assistance Service with a dedicated product line working with clutter and hoarders. http://www.leaveittome.info/. You can reach LITM at leaveittome@live.com. This article explores the relationship between women, weight and the resultant hoarding that can occur when women hold on to clothing that no longer fit.



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